我想看這個。
Love is not judging.
Today is often refer to as the time of narcissism. Thanks to communication technology development such as Internet and liberal social, political conditions, people began to speak out. In the streets, they continuously talk on their mobile phones. Online, they run their own show on their blogs and personal webpages. They refuse to be in the backstage but step up as stars of their own show. Ironically, people feel alone because nobody listens but everybody is talking his or her own story.
“My injury is greater.” “My demand is more urgent.” “I am the nicest and loneliest.” “I had the hardest life.” However, nobody knows because there is no person available for listening. Everybody feels dejected. As there are more and more ways to communicate, people become more isolated. It is the tragedy of the narcissistic 21st century.
They want someone to say you are important, to accept themselves “as is” without judging and to listen. They want unconditional love.
Each and everyone thinks “I can’t love someone unconditionally, but I want someone to love me that way!” Therefore, there is no such person.
People are taunted by others’ opinion. “I need to get good grades, go to a good school, have a good job, live in good neighborhood, earn more money, be more fashionable and beautiful, lose weight, look younger, grab attention, and meet someone with all the right conditions.” The list is endless. When does it stop?
The only possible solution to this problem is to become an unconditionally loving person first. I have to love myself first and tell myself that it is okay not to be perfect. It is okay to fail. It’s okay to be ugly, but actually I’m not ugly. I’m beautiful and I’m doing fine.
Of course, it is not as easy as it looks. However, a person who can truly oneself will be able to love others. True communication becomes possible between people who know how to love themselves.
“Pretty Insun” is about loving oneself unconditionally and communicating with others heart to heart.
In the story, people who endless thirst for love and recognition will realize that true love does not exist anywhere but inside oneself. They will learn that the greatest, incomparable beauty reside in inner self.
Who can throw a stone at her?
A girl was abandoned by her mother at birth and grew up under her grandmother. She served a few years in prison for killing her school mate accidentally. People see a scarlet letter on her. She is the sinner to them. She has the worst background one can have.
However, when you think about it? Who is sinless? And, who would not have bad backgrounds in the eyes of the better-off? What is sin? Who can throw a stone at her?
How can we become truly happy?
我想看這個。就算拍的非常差,就算大家都不能 act,就算悶死,我都想看。爲什麽?因爲就憑這個 summary,我已經感動了。我每一天都這麽想的,爲什麽他家不停的覺得自己最好,最可憐,最有義氣,有最好的 sense of justice。
所以,就算我討厭我都會最尊敬這個。
還有人懷疑我爲什麽那麽喜歡講 Death Note 嗎?
一樣的理由。
因爲清清楚楚的給大家看自己的想法和本能。
FANBOY replied:
Huzzah! Sounds like someone’s getting tired of isolation and the callous indifference in life. Well, I agree with ya – people seem to be getting more and more selfish. I’m one of them. It’s like we’re focused only on our own pain that we can’t feel that of others. Your solution is correct: we need to open up and see what’s going on with others. We need to be more human. Isolation makes us animals.
Beautifully written post. I can’t think right now so I’m probably blabbing on and on and on and on and on and … you get the point
四月 6, 2008 at 11:40 am. Permalink.